In many relationships, it is considered a good sign of trust to know and give the passwords to your boyfriend or girlfriend phone and social media accounts. But, if they hide the password, then they must have something to hide. If they ask for your password, they're to demanding. If your girlfriend or boyfriend constantly checks your stuff, then they must be controlling. What do you believe? What matters?
Passwords should not be a big deal. Whether you decide to give your password is your choice. It should never be life or death, or even a deal breaker for a relationship.
No one should be demanding your account info either. Demanding is definitely a sign of a controlling or an unhealthy relationship. Whether you all have each others passwords, there should be trust.
At this stage in life, many teens are in relationships. some are very much more serious than others. No teen should be being tied down, or have their password(s) forced out of them. We're young! What's the purpose? No girl or boy should have a second parent as a boyfriend or girlfriend.
When it comes to this debate with teens, it is of course over the top. Do what you want. Personally, passwords are SO NOT a deal breaker. Whether you have something to hide or not, you have a password for a reason - For P R I V A C Y !
Decide who you want to be in your space, and how they are apart of your space. Don't control and don't be controlled.
Teedottt..
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